Its a mean world out there, mean times. and this is some mean ass:
. Its oily, its brown and its bulbous. Surely something to be feared! I was recently witness to a few things that made me giggle. I group of men exchanging tips on how to last longer when they are with a woman with much ass or much beauty. They suggested creams and techniques and stuff, to desensitize. The funny part is why does it matter if she is really sexy? Does her sex appeal not help you focus and compel you on to legendary love making? One would think so! But this leads me to the other side:
what does it mean if you can’t even get hard? Is it a physical, mental or emotional issue? Say this babe is interested in tryin to bed you down. She puts for her best effort in order to make you forget your own name and only be able to remember hers and you exclaim to the height of your vocal capacity… would you fear the chance to be with her because of the chance that she might break you off and you splash too soon?
Well lets look at it like this: if you splash too soon, really how bad is it? Hell it ain’t all that bad, a real chick is going to allow you a second chance because she knows how powerful her pussy is.
Niggas well spend time being embarrassed and ashamed of throwing out some weak shit from time to time, but I say fuck all that, and then fuck the pussy again! The only way to recover is to get back up in that ass!
You may need some assistance like some suction or some hand action or maybe something more radical like tender foreplay, but go back for seconds! thirds even!
See your chick wants to do you really bad like, and the worse thing you can do is not give it up when she wants to give it up, and if she midnight marauds on you, tell her, “Its ok baby, cause I’m coming back for more! until then, hold me”.
if that don’t work, you need another chick.
Sometimes people ask for things that they don’t really know about. For instance when women who have never had a man that tells them everything ask for one, and then they get on, and then they don’t want to talk to him.
This is a post about relationships, and believe you me, Nigga J knows a lot about them.
So the issues in all of them is communication. The way you say shit, the way I hear shit and vice versa. You take things personally, I don’t take them personally enough. Things are taken out of context, we use the wrong words, the context is not taken into consideration. I don’t get what you’re saying, so I’m an idiot and you get to feel emotionally superior.
Etc, etc, we’ve all been there. Men and women are different. People are different, they think in all kinds of ways that are sometimes very subtle and sometimes very pronounced, but when people come together to make some kind of couple, then things get double hard because you have all different kinds of interference, such as gender, societal roles, along with the normal things that come in life. So how do you fix this?
I suggest you do it with logic. But are most people logical? No, men are about the bottom line and solutions, women are more about context and the happenings. Can we meet in the middle?
I believe we can, but the the problems that come with that are who is going to maintain the balance of power? Women want the relationship to be emotional, men want to to be logical. It should contain elements of both. no man or woman should have to kiss another’s ass to be with someone else. And if you want it to work you have to talk about everything, good or bad. It may not be something you want to hear, but its what the other person thinks and what makes them tick.
They may say something you think is completely fucked up, but as long as its not meant to be mean, it should be something that has to do with your emotional mind and your logical emotion.
Chicks have to calm down their frazzled ass dizzy emotions, and dudes have to pump up their emotional intelligence! Then the two doofy parties can get down to the business of trying to relate to one another. Which is hard enough as it is.
But if she looked like this, its easier to get motivated:
This chick reminds me of Garcelle Beauvais, if she was finer when she was younger.
Today is the 1st of July, and that means that its just a little more than two weeks away before I tell all these hoes to kiss my natural black ass. The word of the last few weeks, fuck, the last few months has been changes. I was thinking about it this morning and what do changes mean? It means that you have to do a few things: accept or resist. Which is it going to be? Resistance is futile.
You have to look at change as an opportunity to do it better than the last time, no matter what the change is. Examine yourself and see where you are sitting, then prepare to make a move on that change that will bring about the best possible outcome. It won’t always be easy, I’m telling you muthafuckas that right now, but its worth it in the long run. So long as you don’t come up with some stupid shit.
that is all.






